I have a difficult time controlling myself around people whose personalities clash with mine so I learned a lot from Kermit this chapter. Usually, I get all frustrated and blow up at some point but the little tips given in this chapter will probably be able to help! I think # 3, show your feelings, is the most prominent because I am too nice some times when I am upset, then I explode which is fun. I also love the idea of # 5, be relentlessly upbeat! I think this can go for any situation, not just necessarily personality clash. A lot of frustration can be resolved by simply being upbeat and not too concerned about being dominant or the clash.
When I am in a bad mood I usually expect people to ignore the mood but I love it when people are upbeat! A lot of times I’ll get out of my bad mood by being around positive people/person for a while. If I am in a bad mood its probably from school and has nothing to do with SLT or you so don’t take it personally.
My favorite line of the book is “Always be happy. When people are in a bad mood, the last thing they want to do is hang around with happy people!” Love it!
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